Need a template for FlexGrid

I recently joined new client where my work will be more of Windows Form programming. They are using ComponentOne's flexgrid with lots of customization and it looks great. When I started my new screen, I wanted to use same look and feel. Basically I needed a template for flexgrid with all the styles already set. But I was not able to create one as it puts all the style attributes inside the .vb file. I wish we can create a customized one flexgrid control and anybody who wants use can just drag and drop and then add their columns as per their need!!

I never liked the editable feature of the web datagrid in aspx page. I will use that feature only for maintaining lookup table maintenance. But recently my friend asked whether it is possible to provide this kind of interface for a large table which has 15 columns!! To avoid the horizontal scroll bar, she wants to have each row wrapping down to next column and so each row may have two to three lines of data with one edit button. Strange requirement and don't know whether it is possible with datagrid.