Book recommendations?

 I get this question often, what books should I read to become a better developer? Not just 'how to code better' either.  We are talking full life cycle here, start to finish (is there ever a finish?).

I have been too lazy to put a list together.  Today, I saw this list.  It's pretty much every book I have read, I am reading or plan to read.  Replace C# with VB.NET and that's me in a nutshell.